Okay, I have a rather small bridal party.
1 MOH, 2 bridesmaids
The MOH is a friend of ours and the 2 bridesmaids is my sister and his sister.
Okay... I feel like my bridal party doesn't know how important this wedding is to me and all the dates leading up to it. Such as the bridal shower, bachelorette party, rehearsal, time we have to meet for pictures before the ceremony. My MOH isn't the problem, she is just going with what I tell her. I am not asking much from my bridal party besides buying their dresses, shoes and of course do WHATEVER they want with their hair. I'm not MAKING them do anything...besides of course their dresses which have already been bought.
My sister (BM #1). I just found out she is 2 months pregnant... I mean c'mon why did you have to get knocked up? Now she is going to stick out like a sore thumb, and she is not wearing no maternity dress she can fit into the one we bought or buy another one. How trashy my bridal party looks now, a little 20 year old who is on her 3rd child. UGH! She just is so irresponsible. When it comes to planning these parties she is like "well I'm pregnant" I just wanna be like thats your own fault, that is not an excuse to not come to these events.
FH's sister (BM #2). We put her in the wedding party because she bitched about nobody from his side being in the wedding, well first off this was his choice who he wanted in. So after her bitching about how he was closer with his ex (which he wasn't) and not taking this serious we put her in. She pretty much picked the BM dresses (luckily I liked them). But she picked the shoes, which at first I liked the idea but when I went home and thought about it I didn't, and she won't wear another pair even if I buy them. So I am just going to make them go barefoot for photos. She was all like "its about you guys not what the bridal party wears" well excuse me, its my dream to have everything matching. I tried talking to my FH, but he just doesn't understand, lol! Anyway...now when it comes to the parties she finds it more important to make t-shirts and beads with her relay for life team than agree on a date for the bachelorette party. I mean seriously, its one friken day! Another thing she complained about is the time for photos...she had to say "oh that makes for a long day" well sorry, but thats how the photographer does things.
I just feel like these girls don't understand. His sister is married, so I don't get why she has to act like this... she knows what we are supossed to do. From what her mom and my FH told me she made her bridal party do what she wanted. I'm not doing this, to be honest I don't even need their help. I just want someone up there with me, you know!? But I am planning my bridal shower and bachelorette party, so it goes how I have dreamed of. The girls said they would run the games if I tell them what I want. I don't know what to do, I'm about to flip out. If I talk to my mom all she will say is "calm down" to be honest there is no time to calm down, the wedding is getting closer and things need to be taken care of. I'm about to just say screw these parties and if people ask I'm gonna be like well people aren't taking things seriously so I decided to just ruin the wedding myself. Sorry for this complaining, and long post... but I just had this built up and needed to explode. I just don't know what to do?
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