so I posted on here before about how my MOH set her wedding date for a week after mine.. I changed my date because of it then I had to change it back because I couldn't get my venue for the new date.. well we were talking on the phone the other day and she asked me for advice.. she told me that many of her FH's family members have been telling them that they will not be able to make it to their wedding because his cousin just got engaged and set her wedding date for a week after theirs!!!!..not to be glorious in someone else's misery but i feel like "ha ha thats what you get" especially since she has selective memory and said that she set her date before mine.
My partner and i got engaged mid 2008. we decided to wait to get married until after i finished uni so we could help pay for the day.( 9th April 2011)
Since then 3 of my cousins have become engaged as well as my brother. One of my cousins was married in October, another will be married in Jan 2011, and the other due to living over seas has decided to elope within the next few months. This is all fine, my problem is my brother. He became engaged at the beginning of 2010 and has just yesterday 5/12/2010 decided to get married on the 29th Jan 2011!!
Talk about having my thunder stolen from right under me
We have family who lives a fair distance away and some over seas and im now worried they wont be able to come to both weddings.
Call me selfish but i wanted to be married first- so 3 of my cousins have beat me to the alter that i can live with (although i admit i am still cut about as one was pushed through to be before mine) But hearing that my brother is now probably going to be married first has just left me feeling lost and shattered!
Should i say something to my brother??
what would i even say??
I don't want the flower girls to look like mini brides, they remind me of child brides and that creeps me out.
Opinions? Flowers, baskets?
Since then 3 of my cousins have become engaged as well as my brother. One of my cousins was married in October, another will be married in Jan 2011, and the other due to living over seas has decided to elope within the next few months. This is all fine, my problem is my brother. He became engaged at the beginning of 2010 and has just yesterday 5/12/2010 decided to get married on the 29th Jan 2011!!
Talk about having my thunder stolen from right under me
We have family who lives a fair distance away and some over seas and im now worried they wont be able to come to both weddings.
Call me selfish but i wanted to be married first- so 3 of my cousins have beat me to the alter that i can live with (although i admit i am still cut about as one was pushed through to be before mine) But hearing that my brother is now probably going to be married first has just left me feeling lost and shattered!
Should i say something to my brother??
what would i even say??
I don't want the flower girls to look like mini brides, they remind me of child brides and that creeps me out.
Opinions? Flowers, baskets?
i know this isn't about sex, but i didn't know where else to post it.
anyway, last night fh said something about my body that really hurt my feelings.
i'm a rather small girl, 5'3 and 104 pounds. he said he'd like it better if the difference between my waist (23") and my hips (33") wasn't so big.
this may sound silly, but i always thought he loved my body the way it is. i mean, his isn't perfect either, but i never have thoughts like this.
i asked him if he'd prefer a girl with smaller hips over me and he said yes. what the heck??
anyway, last night fh said something about my body that really hurt my feelings.
i'm a rather small girl, 5'3 and 104 pounds. he said he'd like it better if the difference between my waist (23") and my hips (33") wasn't so big.
this may sound silly, but i always thought he loved my body the way it is. i mean, his isn't perfect either, but i never have thoughts like this.
i asked him if he'd prefer a girl with smaller hips over me and he said yes. what the heck??
am i overreacting? i'm not shallow or anything, but it did hurt my feelings.
Me and my fiance have been together 2 years in august and we r planning on getting married august 21, 2011 our 3 year anniversary. ever since we got engaged its like he is a different person. we fight about the sutpidest things and he always threatens to leave when we fight and go home. about a month ago my dad got him a good job. he hated it he said and quit after only one shift. i am forbidden to question him about this. now last week for some reason my computer was logged into his facebook and up popps a picture of him with his ex. i confronted him about it and he admitted theyve been hanging out and are just friends. now today it is logged in to his gmail and there is a convo between him and another female that is very flirty. also because i freaked about this i went into the trash in his email and there is a longer convo about he hopes hes not too young for her and he has a job and car and working on a better place to live. where i come from thats whaat u say when ur trying to pick up a person. from this i also found another myspace of his where he is single and has a shirtless pic as his default and is only friends with singles females. i asked him about the myspace and he said it must be old but there is a pic i took on the vac we got engaged and it says he logged in yesterday and his reg myspace hasnt been on since middle november. i really dont think hes cheating because his ex cheated on him and he knows how it hurts but i still think hes panicking about the wedding and flirting with anyone who will flirt back.
I want to trust him but its really hard. ever since the pic with his ex appeared im having a hard time trusting. also he texts all day and if i even look at his phone he goes crazy like there is something to hide.
i dont know what to do any advice is greatly appericiated.
Hey all,
I was wondering if anyone has ever used Prep H for under eye puffiness... In preparation for my wedding I am going through a lot of changes... and the puffiness is getting owrse and worse... a friend of mine told me about Prep h and said it worked like other more expensive creams but at a minimal cost... I think it sounds funny but if it worked for others I woudl try it...
Let me know if you have or know of someone who has and what was the result
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