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Friday, November 12, 2010

Seriously??

I am a member of Wedding buzz, formerly Wedding Book, on Facebook.  Now there are some great ladies on there that are just bubbling over with wonderful ideas for everything related to weddings. There are some people that are clearly off their rocker.  One lady posted:

I have been having small fights with my FH on superstitions. I am a firm believer that you don't see each other the day of the wedding and that I can't stay that the house because of this. Well, according to him I was to stay here and I was just being silly.So after telling him I wouldn't marry him and withdrawing from him for 2 days, I won.
I was soooo shocked as I'm pagan with a large belief in karma and he laughs at it.


She was proud that she acted like a three year old.  Throwing tantrums and threatening to leave your Future Husband (FH) is immature and absolutely ridiculous. Who does that?  What grown woman would leave for 2 days and not speak to their fiance because of a "small fight"?  UGH!  Really??  "I won."???  You clearly lost your mind and your maturity when you pulled this stupid stunt.  Any man who stays with a woman who threatens to call of the wedding really needs some professional help.  A relationship, a healthy one at least, should not work that way. There is compromise.  There  are arguments.  There are all out fights.  There should never be threats to end the relationship and call off the wedding because of small fights.

I am so happy that I have a happy, healthy relationship.  I could not ask for a better relationship than the one that I have.  He is the most amazing person for me.  Some people may not think he is perfect, but he is perfect FOR ME.  I love him so much.  We have certainly have our ups and downs, as anyone has, but we are always strong and we don't let it damage our relationship.

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